Lucy, one of our two foster dogs, was adopted today. Her brother, Rex, was adopted on Saturday. I was happy for Rex with only a little sadness, even though he was my favorite. Then something happened. Lucy bloomed. Removed from the shadow of her big brother, she came into her own.
She went from being terrified of the elevator to pushing at the door like she owned the thing.
She was suddenly sitting like she’d understood all along but was too nervous to sit in front of her brother.
She figured out walking on a leash didn’t mean towing me.
She learned to amuse herself. First, she decided the socks on the bedroom floor should be piled on the couch. Then, she decided to move all linens from her crate to the couch, too. She started with the heavy quilt draped over her crate. It weighs almost as much as she does. She grabbed it by a corner and wrestled it off the crate, one inch at a time. She managed to get one corner of it up onto the couch, adding to her pile of socks she’d collected. Then, she hopped down on top of the rest of the quilt, took the corner in her mouth and tried to jump up on the couch with it. She couldn’t figure out her own weight was preventing her from performing this feat and ended up in a wrestling match with the quilt, growling at it while she tried to figure out how to get it into place.
Finally, she gave up and went for the first blanket in the crate. Then the second. Then the towel we’d put underneath for extra padding. She had a massive nest on the couch plus the large quilt draping down to the floor.
When Pat came home and sat on the couch to print a document he needed, she jumped out of her nest, barking at the printer across the room. I laughed and said, “Maybe we can teach her to retrieve your printout?” 30 seconds later, the printer stopped and Lucy ran over, grabbed the printout off the printer, brought it to within 3 feet of Pat, and dropped it on the floor. It was almost scary.
Sitting on the couch with her cuddled in my lap, she gazed up at me with her brown eyes and I started thinking thoughts like, “Maybe she could just sleep with us tonight?” Then, I remembered she had an audition with a potential new owner this afternoon. I rubbed her belly and tried not to think of it.
Pat came and took her to her appointment. He came home without her. He liked the family that took her. I am happy for Lucy. But, part of me wishes she could have left a couple days earlier when I was less attached. The shelter says we broke a record for the shortest time to have a foster dog. Turns out it’s not a record I was prepared to break.
I am glad Lucy found a home but sorry for your heartache. I love to hear that she broke out of her mold. It is interesting to watch animals act and react. Attachment and then detachment is really difficult for me and something I could not do. But, I know foster parents are a part of a bigger agenda. I admire those who do it. Congratulations!
Thank you! I miss them both, but I have to admit being able to take a walk today where I could just look at the birds and not worry about dogs reminded me of the up side! 🙂 The shelter is already asking when we can take our next foster(s), so I’m sure we won’t be dogless long.
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